My Favorite Tools To Keep a Creative Mindset in All Circumstances
This post is for you if you can identify with one or more of the following:
–"Wow. I'm just NOT inspired today!"–
— "I'll never make it, I'm soooo lazy. Just can't stop procrastinating." —
–"Pfff…. I'm not sure I'm good enough"–
–"OMG!!! What if they don't like my music?"–
–"Don't even know where to start today…."–
Here are the resources I've found most helpful to stay calm in the face of adversity and build a quiet, unbreakable confidence in my creative abilities.
Even when life sucks.
"Wow. I'm just NOT inspired today!"
First off, give yourself a break. It happens.
That's when the box of inspiration and thoughts comes in handy.
I've heard different people talk about and describe similar practices so I'll just show you what my particular box looks like, what I put it in and how I use it.
This is what the box looks like
So the dimensions are not really important but my box is meant to contain A5 cards. 148×210 mm or 5.8 x 8.3 in depending on how you measure stuff….
These are examples of what's inside the box
I'll write a quote I like on an index card and file it in one of these categories. I might add a few comments in bullet points below the quote.
Sometimes, I'll even write out a creative exercise that I might want to go back to in the future.
This is what the box helps me with
- Finding inspiration
- Giving myself a kick up the backside
- Challenging assumptions and myself
- Getting out of a slump/rut/routine
The key to the creative mindset as I see it is NOT to effortlessly feel inspired everyday but to TRUST that inspiration will turn up if I am humble enough to look for it outside myself.
And there's something truly humbling and comforting about this little box full of beautiful words and wisdom other people shared 🙂
"I'll never make it, I'm soooo lazy. Just can't stop procrastinating."
Part of having a creative mindset is knowing that you're going to procrastinate and be cool with it.
Beating yourself up about how much you procrastinate is NOT going to help you create more music or better music.
This might:
(adapted from Mark Foster's Autofocus system to get everything done)
Step 1- Keep a list of EVERYTHING you have to do and/or want to try, EVERYTHING that comes to mind.
Big or small. In the studio or in "real life". Doesn't matter.
Write down everything that comes to mind. Preferably using a pen and paper.
The list will inevitably become long and scary at times but you'll manage it. Here's how.
Step 2 – Whenever you feel like working, even if it's just for 5 minutes, go through the list WITHOUT ANY INTENTION of working on a particular item….
Don't worry about what you think you SHOULD be working on or what's urgent or what your uncle would really want you to do or what you've been putting off for weeks.
Just skim through the list from top to bottom. Without any intention.
Step 3- THEN you go through that list again but more slowly and pick one item to work on, whatever jumps out at you….
When you see it, you'll know. You'll feel it.
Here's where this practice gets really powerful: there's really NO PRESSURE to complete the task or work a certain amount of time….
When you're done working, simply cross out the task and, if it's not finished, add a new entry at the bottom of the list.
That's it.
Housekeeping
You'll notice that stuff accumulates so, once in a while, you'll want to go through the list and ask yourself why something's not done yet.
Am I putting this off because it's actually not very important?
Recommended action: cross-off
Am I procrastinating because the task feels like a lot of effort compared to the expected reward?
Recommended action: cross-off
Is it the right time for this task?
Recommended action: highlight for later and, if applicable, add a related action item that is a first step to get you there
For example, a few years back I was thinking of setting up a page on Patreon for people to support my music but never seemed to get around to it.
Was I procrastinating because I'm lazy. Nope…. I was procrastinating because, deep down, I knew I wasn't ready.
There were a TON of steps I needed to take BEFORE I set up a Patreon page.
I needed to spend more time defining my music project and build a loyal following prior to launch.
Is the task well defined or is it too big or too vague?
Recommended action: cross-off and replace by a smaller, well-defined action item
For example, "find a publisher" is pretty overwhelming. It'll take hours (months?!) before I can cross that off….. If I read it like that on a list, chances are I'll keep postponing and do nothing.
So what do I do? I cross out that item out and add a new, smaller item that will get me started.
Perhaps something like "send music submission to the first 3 music publishers I find when typing 'music publisher jazz music' on Google".
"Pfff…. I'm not sure I'm good enough"
Whenever you're doubting yourself, thinking you're maybe not good enough and shouldn't be deluding yourself, it's time to….
Pick up Gavin Aung Than's book: Creative Struggle.
It's the perfect pick-me-up for when you're feeling low because you'll see just how much EVERYONE struggles and has self-doubts.
Yes, even Einstein, Stephen King and Leonardo da Vinci. I mean Leonardo da Vinci….. Come on!!
Side note: you can get a taste for the author's work for free right here on his website.
"What if they don't like my music?"
Worrying about what other people think is a sure-fire way to kill your creativity.
A creative mindset starts with understanding that the act of creating is all that truly matters.
It's what's in your control, what you enjoy doing and/or need to do.
What happens outside of that creative process is secondary, including how people perceive your work. After all….. everybody's a critic but nobody knows shit, really!
So how do you stay focused on what's truly important, i.e. your music, the creative process?
Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman's book The Daily Stoic and its companion journal have helped me:
- focus on what I can control
- see the positive in every situation*
- react quickly when I feel overwhelmed
So what if they didn't like my music? It just means I have more work to do, either finding a better-suited audience or making better-produced music.
This terrible thing just happened?* Ok, let me be sad and angry and feel sorry for myself for a bit. I'll take it slow for a while, take the time to recover but also make sure I focus on the little things I can do along the way.
*Side note: I am not writing this from a place of happy go-lucky, everything always works out for me experience . This has worked for me in the face of truly testing adversity, including death, abuse and the usual shit life has a way of throwing at you when you're lucky enough to be alive.
"Don't even know where to start today…."
Ok so you've got a lot on your plate but no clue where to start.
As a result, maybe you tend to work aimlessly on stuff without making much progress or, worse, you don't get started at all….
Here's what I recommend: try taking 5-10 minutes in the evening to think about the next day.
What would make that day great?
What would you need to accomplish in the next 24 hours to feel great about yourself?
Write down 1-5 thin